Jun 20, 2019
Do you ever go to the park and see two ducks thrashing around, flailing their wings, making loud noises and disturbing the peace of the rest of the pond community? This is like you and your Gumball guy fighting, although you may mistake it for passion.
Now picture the white swan on the other side of the pond, calmly gliding through the water, unbothered. She might look over at the dramatic ducks and think, “What the heck? How do they live like that?”. When this lady-swan sees another handsome man-swan who is calmly gliding through the water as well, they will recognize each other as peaceful beings that can come together and make that cute little heart shape with their necks, ya know what I’m saying?
The work we do in the Back To YOU Academy is to make the path smoother and clearer to get you to majestic swan status.
The thing is, this is a process. And you might feel overwhelmed just thinking about it because you may see other girls who are further along in their process. Maybe you haven’t even been on a date in 10 years and you’re scared to get back out there. You might feel embarrassed because you keep repeating the same bad behavior patterns and your friends don’t want to hear it any more. But I created the Academy as a safe space where you will be loved and accepted no matter where you are.
Even if you fall and go back to him, or you don’t feel ready to leave him yet, we will catch you every time. There’s even a process of leaving him when you’re still with him (don’t steal my book title lol). But I can tell you, if you’re listening to this podcast and following this content, you’re ready for change.