Aug 19, 2019
The Cosmo magazines of the world will tell you you're being ghosted because you're too clingy, or revealing emotions too soon. Guys will tell you they just forgot or don't like to be on their phone all the time. But is that really the case, or is there a deeper, more psychological reason?
A guy from an online dating app texts you, "Hey, what's up." You continue on with a shallow text conversation for a while and finally ask..."Should we meet up?" Suddenly, he becomes the busiest guy in the world and can't find any time to pencil you in but keeps promising you'll meet up some vague time in the future.
By the end of this episode you will know the real reason why he does this, why it has nothing to do with you, and you will understand the true pain behind his shallow, distant texts. You will be able to separate his behavior from your self worth.
In this episode, I cover:
- What "pick-up artists" for men are teaching (and not teaching) to shy, insecure guys, and why it hurts more than it helps
- Why these men are so scared to go on a date with you, and why it's not about you
- Why dating an insecure man and trying to convince him you like him will eventually destroy you
- Why sometimes you have really amazing moments with them but ultimately it's never a happy ending
- How to spot the red flags of a guy who's lacking confidence
- Why trying to build up his confidence always backfires
- How joining the Back to YOU Academy can help you get out of this situation and avoid these situations in the future
I also read excerpts from the book, "Why am I afraid to tell you who I am? by John Powell.
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For full show notes and links: https://gumballlove.com/blog/the-real-reason-he-is-ghosting-you